Friday, January 16, 2009

A New Year and A New Me



Happy Belated New Year!

I have so much to be thankful for this year and one resolution that I have will be to blog more regularly and, now that the election has come and gone, more diversely. I can't believe it but I just celebrated my 3rd annual locversary! It's hard to believe that its been three years and yes I am madly in love with my SL's.

I have a lot on my plate for this year:

-I'm defending my thesis this quarter and the first thing I have to do is finish my experiments so that I can set a date with my committee. Nothing else matters until the date is set so I'll just be blogging my trials, triumphs and tribulation until then.

-I'm addicted to facebook-if I'm your friend you probably already know this.

-I'm also going to take ownership of being a better me. How will I do this? By continuing on my journey of self-love and acceptance. It started when I went to Nigeria this summer and fell in intense infatuation with someone other than my boyfriend. Within 3 weeks I was engaged and I broke up with my former boyfriend after I returned. However, as time passed I realized that I had made a huge mistake and I called it all off.

So where did that leave me? Single, again. But I'm learning a lot from my mistakes, notably that I often mistake infatuation for love and by the time it's worn off I'm stuck in a relationship that I don't want to be in but am afraid to end for fear of hurting the other person. I know, that was a long sentence! But luckily I'm learning and growing towards a path towards self love.

-This weekend I'm headed to DC for the inauguration! I'm excited but I don't have any tickets to anything! I'll prolly go to one ball, and if I do I'll send pics!

Talk to you soon!
Chi(:

5 comments:

jaysie said...

Chi, be safe and have fun in DC. Take lots of pictures!

happy cat says whaaaat said...

Ditto!

Anonymous said...

Have a wonderful and memorable time in DC.

Unfortunately it's hard to distinguish infatuation and love when you're in the thick of it. Only when the dust has settled do you realize. You're definitely on the right track with continuing self love and acceptance. 2009 will be a brilliant year for you!

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NneomaMD said...

wow...the same thing happened to me...naija guys are quite the sweet-talkers...